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Showing posts with label chinese. Show all posts
Showing posts with label chinese. Show all posts
Friday, September 28, 2012
Kid's Play - A Little Girl's Breaking News...
This post is borrowed from my friend Karen Tan's Facebook posting. It is reproduced here with her permission (with very minor corrections to typo errors and formality):
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This is my daughter's most original way of breaking the news that she didn't do too well in her Chinese language test. She breaks into a song at bedtime. Completely improvised.
"O Mama, your eyes are as round as the ... zeroes that I get on my Chinese paper...
O Mama, your eyeballs are as crossed as the "x"es that my teacher marked on my test paper ....
O Mama, your lips are as red as the red ink that fills the pages of my test paper ....
O Mama, your cheeks are as fat as the scary Chinese test paper that I didn't like sitting for ....
O Mama, your ears are as wrong as the words that I wrote wrongly when I should have written something else ....
O Mama, your legs as as long as the cane that my teachers threatens us with ....
O Mama, your hair is as black as my teacher's face when she returned me my test paper ...
and in her soprano finale ...
O MAMAaaaaaa.......!! I love you SOOOOOoo!!!!"
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Wouldn't anyone forgive this little angel easily?!! :)
Thursday, June 17, 2010
Respect and Honour Your Guests

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The Japanese is probably the most polite people in the world and a culture that offers the best customer service.
A Japanese host upon seeing anyone coming near their shop would instantly bow, greet the person, and say "please come in".
A Chinese host would normally wait for the customer to enter the shop before talking to the customer. Those that do come out, usually do so to ask what the customer wants. Some of the more zealous ones will go further to suggest what the customer should have.
I would feel more comfortable entering a Japanese shop, as I feel honored and pampered to examine what they have to offer at my liberty, without obligations.
In a Chinese shop, I would feel pressured to buy, as an expectation is already set.
For all else being equal, many of us would rather enter the Japanese shop than the Chinese shop, as the former offers us the comfort and liberty to do so.
The crux of it happens in the first three seconds when anyone is seen near the shop. For the Japanese, it is a reflex to honour and respect the other person. Applied to business, it not only win over the customers' hearts, but even win against the hungrier,leaner and arguably more efficient Chinese.
Taking longer than three seconds to react to the presence of the customer will not have the same effect, as it will turn out choreographed or orchestrated. Just like the many smiles and "Good morning sir" greetings from American fast food chains, they don't produce the same results.
This crucial three seconds, however took a lifetime to develop. A lifetime to make it one's second nature. The irony is that the Japanese culture of honorific greetings and bowing was originally imported entirely from China!
This comparison between the Japanese and Chinese is a case of culture winning over brute force. It also demonstrates that 'copies' can be refined to a quality higher than the original.
In history, the superior culture eventually emerged the victor.
In 371 BC, the Spartans lost the war against the Athenians, although the former had a superior record in military might. The Athenians rose to become influential figures in economics and politics in the territories they lost to the Spartans and corroded the defensive brute force Spartan shell.
Similarly, after the Mongols had invaded China in 1271, Kublai Khan adopted legal systems of the Han Chinese and established political systems, radicated politics of centralized state power, resumed normal ruling orders, and also, created the system of administrative province.
Labels:
business,
chinese,
culture,
customer,
customer experience,
Customer service,
japanese,
refinement
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