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Saturday, October 18, 2008

Autumn Colours 2

My first autumn was spent in Australia. Then, a group of us city-slickers who are born in the tropics, drove all the way from Sydney to Canberra to see the beautiful autumn colours, which it is known for. There, we were fascinated by the breathtaking scenaries of varied shades of autumn, of carefully selected types of trees planted next to each other to show their colour contrasts and accentuate the beauty of autumn.
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One of my housemates was so amazed he brought back a selected leaf, which he carefully held between his thumb and index finger throughout the 1,000 km trip back to Sydney.
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When we reached home, he realised that we had the same type of tree right in our own garden! The leaf looks like this one below... :)
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Maple Leaf

The moral of the story is that it pays for us to open our eyes and admire the moment wherever we are, otherwise there will be much that escape right before our very own eyes.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Lost In Conceptualisation

This is a spoon I use everyday.
However, to six year old Zara, she exclaimed,
"WHAT A KOOL SPOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!".
"Why is it a kool spoon?" I asked.
"Because it is so colourful!" she replied.
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Yes, come to think of it, now that she has mentioned, it is a 'kool spoon'! I did not notice that it is such a colourful spoon, though I look at it everyday. Looking is different from observing. To me, I saw it just as a spoon with a function, that falls into a category conceptualised as 'a spoon'. When we conceptualise things, we stop looking at the true characteristics and finer properties of the 'thing', and the true 'thing' gets lost in conceptualisation.
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Conceptualisation, categorisation or labeling is useful in our everyday thoughts and communications, but we need to be careful not to be blinded by them. We learn about concepts and labels early in our life, right from the time when someone told us that 'it is a bird' that flew by, or 'that is an aeroplane', etc. It would have been better to have been taught that "the feathered creature that just flew over is something we call a 'bird'" or such like. There is a difference. In the latter, it would encourage me (as a child) to continue to be observant with all things around me as they are, not blinded by the labeling, but still made aware of their names or labels.
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Being observant is fascinating, as we notice the simple beauty in all things around us and understand them better. By observing, we discover new things everyday and remember what we see better. Have you wondered why some people have a better memory than others? That is because they live in the NOW. Being observant is living in the NOW. That's how children below six, develop photographic memory.
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Photographers, painters and writers produce works from their detailed observations in life. I have found photography to be very relaxing as it makes me observe the various and varied colours, geometry and expressions of all life forms. Likewise, writing and painting are relaxing because the painter or writer has to observe the intricate details of his object.
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As adults, we have missed a lot in life by ceasing to be observant. Sometimes, when we see a new shop opening along the high streets, we wonder what was there before. Even though the shop was much bigger than us and we pass by it everyday, we couldn't remember how it looked like or what was there. Sometimes, a whole building got demolished and we wonder what was there before!
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We perform better when we are observant and it helps us serve people and organisations better. By observing the needs of our customers, remembering their names and what they purchase before, costs us nothing, but gives much. Being observant and not being distracted by labeling and conceptualisation helps me a great deal in my role as an information security specialist - the sort that outwit hackers.
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My knowledge about information security emerged from the old days of computing, the time when we instruct computers with strings of 1s and 0s. It was extremely tedious going through switches and punch-cards, but it compelled us to go through every necessary logic. Then, we have to observe each blinking light, and laboriously enter every '1' and '0'. It was painful, but it made all of us remember.
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As the knowledge developed, the 1s and 0s got collectively generated by programs written in more English-like computer languages. This in turn, got generated by programs that writes programs. By the 1990's, some application programs became so popular that just knowing how to operate the application becomes a commercial skill.
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As programming evolves, the 'programmer' now becomes more and more distant from the core computer and lack the intimate experience to understand its fundamentals directly. Meanwhile, program development are continuously abstracted, conceptualised, de-skilled, and drifted further from its happier pioneering days.
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[Incidentally, drawing parallels with computing, this is the same for human beings. I find that the more I understand about my innerself, the happier I become.]
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An information security specialist has to be highly concerned over details, as understanding what goes on in a system is critical. 'System' here goes beyond technology, to embrace the whole operating environment, like people, procedures, business needs...etc. In such a breadth and diversity, it would be impossible to know everything by mere logic. However, by careful observation a lot can be discovered intuitively. This is what they call the "Aha!", or "when the coin finally drops", much like how detectives unveil mysteries.
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In one of my investigations, an executive I interviewed claimed that morale was high in the company and therefore information security was not a problem. I accepted that at face-value. However later as I strolled the corridors of the company, I noticed broken door knobs in the offices and a cracked mirror in the elevators, that looked like acts of vandalism.
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This led me to suspect that what the executive said wasn't true. I then decided to mingle around during lunchtime, and it was then I found out that the company was firing many people and morale was all-time low. If so, there will be more disgruntled employees and security would be a problem, since most security breaches in organisations comes from within. So, what started out as seemingly unrelated observations, aggregated into useful information that suggested for more internal controls.
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Just like computing, information security has been over-conceptualised, compartmentalised and have distanced the present day practitioner from fundamentals like identifying risks to strengthen the weakest link and aggregating clues in investigating incidents. In the old days, we started on the ground, work through the fundamental data, aggregate them into useful information and implement the controls.
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These days, this intuitive process is de-skilled into standard checkboxes built into 'standards'. Expectedly, these standards now become yet another buzzword demanded by the industry. So now, they start from "standards" to dictate what should be done, or not to be done, with the naive expectations that everyone will obey, and the fallacy that they are working with the fundamentals.
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While specialised fields grow in scope and conceptualisation, it will be useful to induct professionals from other fields that are not lost in inbred conceptualisations. These introduced professionals from other fields will observe and ask questions akin to those from an infant and discover the hidden colours of the field. Devoid of previous conceptualisation, labeling and blindspots, new designs, improvements and new knowhow can more easily be developed.
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At the beginning of this article, I mentioned that Zara saw the colourful kool spoon while I didn't. Now I do.
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How about you? Have you passed by your life missing the many colours?
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You may also like to read Universal Law Part 2 where subjects like 'the observer' and 'living in the now' are further discussed.
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Monday, December 18, 2006

105 Universal Laws Notes - Part 2






26 Nov 2006

These posts are back-dated. Somehow, I could not get it uploaded whilst I was in Saudi Arabia.

105 Universal Laws – 26 Nov 2006

This posting is based on what I have learned from the "105 Universal Laws" seminar on the 26th Nov 2006 in Singapore by Dr Aaron Lim. This seminar comprises a series of lectures conducted one Sunday a month, stretching 6 months. This is the fourth lecture of the series.

Warning: This posting contains opinions that may be considered unacceptable by some people. If you are easily offended by unconventional views about religion and spiritualism, then DO NOT READ FURTHER THAN HERE.
If you do, then do it at your own risk! If you do not agree with the views expressed below, it does not mean that you have not 'arrived', rather it just mean that you 'do not agree'. Meanwhile, try to be open. There are lots to discover about ourselves when we are open. Do feel free to leave comments.

The Observer and The Doer

A warm welcome to some of you who are new to the seminar. For this seminar, keep your hearts and minds open. Make no judgments. Judgments are those silent comments you make about a person that you don’t normally voice out. Believing is not compulsory in this seminar. There is no conversion here. If you leave this seminar having learned something, so much the better.

Just like a buffet, you take what you like. And just like a buffet, no two persons will leave having accepted and learned the same things. There are some who eat by quality, some by quantity; some fast, some slow. Everyone come at different times and no two persons take the same quantities and the same dishes.

This is just like Life. We decide what we want on our plate. Some have their plates FULL (Hell). There is an Inner Voice that decide what we take and what we put back.

Whoever eats will fill his own stomach. I cannot eat and you fill your stomach, and vice versa. Even between couples, the spiritual development is different, for they are each taking the different spiritual dishes in different quantities and different times.

We can be an observer in our life this way. If we are an observer in life, we become wiser. Over time, the observer and the doer becomes one. It is like the expert cook when he is cooking. He has become one with his dish, his wok, his fire and ingredients. He knows exactly what to throw in by how much and when to do that, but can’t explain why. By becoming the observer, we start to see the underlying principle in seemingly different things.

Take the example of a Tudung (headscarfed) Muslim woman and a trendy teenager wearing revealing hipster jeans low till just above the crouch. On the surface, they look very different. One conservative, the other liberal to the extent of an exhibitionist. They both are trying to strike an identity for themselves. To be tudung-ed to belong to the custom. Same thing for the teenager, to be outrageously revealing to be in the fashion - to belong. The need to stay in an exclusive group is a show of insecurity. The commonality between the tudung woman and the sexily revealing teen, in the example, is therefore insecurity.

Take another example between a tribal woman with her lower lip extended by a circular plate and a modern urban woman who put on lipsticks. To the tribal man, the extended lip is sexy and beautiful. Likewise the modern man finds a woman with lipstick beautiful. So the commonality between the two women is that they are both trying to look beautiful even though it may not be apparent on the surface.

So do not get caught in the superficial aspects of life. It is like a Tsunami. It is all turbulent and violent on the surface, but deep down the bottom it is still. If you are at the bottom when the Tsunami happens, you will not be swept away.

So be IN this world, not OF this world.

All there is, is LOVE. All else are not permanent and much of them are mere dramas of life. Our blessings come from people, and the safest place is to love unconditionally. Be like water. Water fits with the container unconditionally, in total harmony with its nature, not out of fear.

A secure person doesn’t get carried away by the events of the time. They are comfortable and at peace with themselves. They don’t have to follow fashion. Often, they dress the way they want, and do not follow fashion. That is why people who are great often walk his path alone. It doesn’t have to be, but this is commonly the case.

Living in the Moment

When a person is angry, normally he has an issue with the subject he is confronting. We must learn to be well and happy. Then we can give. There is a prayer that goes:

“Dear God,
Grant me the serenity to accept things I can’t change and the courage to change the things I can. And the wisdom to know the difference. And the difference is ME. May I be well and happy.”

In the bible, there was a man called Jobs. Jobs live a surrendered life, a life surrendered to God. ( By the way, “Islam” means “surrender”.) Jobs’ wife did not live a surrendered life. If we don’t live a surrendered life, we will live life looking back and not living in the moment. In other words, we become immobilized.

In the story, Jobs’ wife was told to go through the cave without turning back otherwise she will be turned to stone. She understood that very well, but at some point could not resist the temptation to look back and turned herself into stone. This parable is to teach us not to look back in life, but live in the moment. And live every moment gloriously.

We have to change to mobilize ourselves and move forward. Unless there is a fundamental change, superficial changes will not take us away from where we are entrenched.

In Alignment

Religions are not in alignment with everyday life today. Religious teachings must sink into the soul to make the followers feel. If we feel, we won’t forget. There are many events we go through in our lives and we forget most of what happened. But those that we feel for, we never forget.

We should spend time walking in nature to get in alignment. Nature has its ways of calming ourselves down and getting us back in alignment. This is our sense of True Self, and our sense of peacefulness. The bible says, “Be still and know that I am God.”

God talks with us all the time, but we can’t hear because we are not quiet.

*Law of Cyclic Returns*

Basically you can call this Law of Recycling. This is the wheel of reincarnation (samsara). Energy cannot be created or destroyed. It changes form. The spirits move with the same habits left from the previous embodiment into the new form.

People with similar habits are attracted to each other. We eventually move around with people of the same consciousness.

Perfection creates perfection. So sin is impossible, for sin (by definition only) is imperfection. We must work towards perfection and be beneficial to other human beings. As long as we are in human body, we will have human emotions.

Cause and Effect

Once words are put out, there is no retrieving. Once thoughts are put out there is no taking back. So have loving thoughts. Love even those that hate you.

If we have no attachment to the ‘effects’, then there is no suffering. Eventually, all causes must be balanced with effects. Thoughts of fear will all be transformed into Love.

The Singer or The Song

What should we remember? The singer or the song?

There are some who question whether Jesus did indeed existed.
Does it matter?

Jesus never said “worship me”. He said “follow me”.
The important thing is the message, that it is so that you will remember and be enlightened. We have delusionally believed that we have ‘left’. Fear will keep us there (lost).

*Law of Right to Decree*

This is not a prayer. It is to say it as you want it to be and it will happen.

Those who have more, will have more added to them.

Those who do not have, will have more taken away from them.

Right to invocate comes from fullness. I say so, so it is.
Seek first the Kingdom of Heaven, and all else will be added to you.

You can’t think your way into enlightenment. You got to FEEL! Inspiration is from feeling!

*Law of Discipline*

There are Initiates, Followers and Disciples.
Many are called, but few are chosen.

*Law of Disintegration*

Clearly explained by the phrase “from dust to dust”. Eventually, all matter will disintegrate.

*Law of Divine Flow*

Does it bring me to my highest good? Release and let go. Let the Spirit direct the flow. Trust. Always have the trust that the divine will take you to your highest good. Everything will flow according to its time.

*Law of Divine Love and Oneness*

“Uni-verse” means one-song.

*Law of Economy*

The Universe is economical with its energy to give the greatest amount of creation. That’s why we don’t have affinity for people who takes too much of our energy. We avoid troublesome people. They take too much energy.

Conversely, the more we can save the energy of other people, the more they will love us. Remember, nobody have to live their life for us.

*Law of Equalities of Analogy*

As above


As within ---------+--------- As beyond



As below


*Law of Expansion*

The Universe will expands and then contracts.


*Law of Expectation*

If you have expectations, you will live in pain.
Try to live a day without expectations and see what happens.

The seminar ended here.

Next seminar date: 28 Jan 2007
Time: 9.30am to 5pm
Place: Tan Tock Seng Hospital, Lecture Theatre 1, Singapore
Fee: $30, for meals and drinks

All Welcome!

All financial surpluses from the seminar go to the orphanages that Dr Aaron Lim supports.