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Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
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Sunday, August 07, 2011

Get a Life!

"Get a life!" so she said, describing those of her friends who are married and whom she said merely rush and fetch their children from childcare, get home and then cook dinner everyday.
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She on the other hand, single and a well-paid lawyer, goes out in the evenings and party, and travel, hike and climb mountains for holidays. That's what she thinks is "life" to her.
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But aren't all these just activities?
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Activities are just manifestations of life, and life is more meaningful if manifested through love. In the midst of the daily seemingly mundane chores of taking care of the family and children, is life lived through love.
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On the other hand, activities in the absence of love hardly bring one much 'life'. These could well include pubbing, clubbing and dining in places among single well-heeled yuppies and glamorous people who are 'hanging-out', especially if they are there out of the fear of loneliness and disorientation.
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So it is not the activity, but whether it is done out of love.

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Friday, February 19, 2010

The Interview with God

Got this inspirational video from a friend today...
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I dreamed I had an interview with God.

“So you would like to interview me?” God asked.

“If you have the time” I said.

God smiled. “My time is eternity.”
“What questions do you have in mind for me?”

“What surprises you most about humankind?”

God answered...
“That they get bored with childhood,
they rush to grow up, and then
long to be children again.”

“That they lose their health to make money...
and then lose their money to restore their health.”

“That by thinking anxiously about the future,
they forget the present,
such that they live in neither
the present nor the future.”

"That they live as if they will never die,
and die as though they had never lived.”

God’s hand took mine
and we were silent for a while.

And then I asked...
“As a parent, what are some of life’s lessons
you want your children to learn?”

“To learn they cannot make anyone
love them. All they can do
is let themselves be loved.”

“To learn that it is not good
to compare themselves to others.”

“To learn to forgive
by practicing forgiveness.”

“To learn that it only takes a few seconds
to open profound wounds in those they love,
and it can take many years to heal them.”

“To learn that a rich person
is not one who has the most,
but is one who needs the least.”

“To learn that there are people
who love them dearly,
but simply have not yet learned
how to express or show their feelings.”

“To learn that two people can
look at the same thing
and see it differently.”

“To learn that it is not enough that they
forgive one another, but they must also forgive themselves.”

"Thank you for your time," I said humbly.

"Is there anything else
you would like your children to know?"

God smiled and said,
“Just know that I am here... always.”

-author unknown
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Wednesday, January 27, 2010

How to live till 100+


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Summary of video:
1. Move ( find ways to move mindlessly, make moving unavoidable )
2. Plan de Vida ( know your purpose in life )
3. Down Shift ( work less, slow down, rest, take vacation )
4. 80% Rule ( stop eating when you're 80% full )
5. Plant-Power ( more veggies, less protein and processed foods )
6. Red Wine ( consistency and moderation )
7. Belong ( create a healthy social network )
8. Beliefs ( spiritual or religious participation )
9. Your Tribe ( make family a priority )
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"How to live a long healthy life", BBC documentary:




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Monday, June 29, 2009

Michael Jackson's Life & Character by his Birth Date


This is a reading of Michael Jackson's Character and Behaviour based on his date of birth using the "Power of Numbers" calculations. For more about the "Power of Numbers", read here.
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Strong survival instincts and like to control wealth and prosperity. family oriented, creative and artistic. well mannered and have a high taste in life. Not one who takes on cheap things. Will do well in education, artistic works and religion. A popular figure in society.
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Proud in nature and doesn’t like taking on simple jobs. Not one who listen to others' instructions especially one's superiors, but one who look after one's subordinates well.
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Very expressive and always busy and stressed. Suited to be in sales or entertainment because of the love to express and can take the consequential pressure. Will end up alone.
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A good planner and is well organized. Will plan alone and that is why can plan well. However, lack ability to execute.
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Believe in own principles strongly and that will lead to wealth/money. Can be seen as stubbornly sticking to own principles and disregard other people’s urging to the contrary, yet finally achieving what was set out. Must travel out of the country of your birth to make more money.
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Aggressively looking for businesses and opportunities, but end up in vain.
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A risk taker, and ventures/business/career will be successful. Have windfall luck.
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Have the charisma to talk and attract many people around, more so, from the opposite sex. A friendly person.
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A planner who believes strongly in own principles. Eventually lead to preset goal. One who plans with motives in mind.
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Have many obstacles in life
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When it comes to money, one who believes only in own principles. There are obstacles making money. But ironically by being too careful can lead to being cheated.
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One who makes money in service-oriented work or situations that require expressions, like sales or entertainment. Wants to be rewarded by money before doing something.
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Major health hazard/operation. (Metaphysical) Metal element cutting through the body.
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Talent: Very creative
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Outward impression: Have a 'no-nonsense' look.
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Subconscious: Very aggressive/fast.
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Old age: No money, but at least 2 properties.
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Sunday, April 19, 2009

The Futurists 8b - Life Extension

I found these two fabulous TED talks:
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David Bolinsky's "Fantastic voyage inside a cell"

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Alan Russell's "Why can't we grow new body parts?"

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Read also: 
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Monday, March 30, 2009

The Futurists 8 - Life Extension

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I asked Stefan if he was serious about discussing about "Life Extension" on April Fool's day. On the very day, on arrival in Chinatown, Global Sounds Cafe was closed for reasons unknown to us. Stefan was late and called to say that he met up with an accident on his way. So, we had to hang around, expecting to wait for a bit.
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Ten minutes later, Stefan arrived looking unscathed. He told us it was an April Fool's joke and he didn't have an accident. He thought that I was playing an April Fool's joke on him - that Global Sounds Cafe was closed! It was not a joke - the cafe was indeed closed!
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Jokes aside, we then moved on to the street stalls and had our meeting there. There was only three of us and we decided to discuss about life in general rather than "Life Extension". There are two books that Stefan introduced. The first one is from the speaker above.
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This is a summary of "Ending Ageing" from amazon:
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MUST WE AGE?
A long life in a healthy, vigorous, youthful body has always been one of humanity’s greatest dreams. Recent progress in genetic manipulations and calorie-restricted diets in laboratory animals hold forth the promise that someday science will enable us to exert total control over our own biological aging.
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Nearly all scientists who study the biology of aging agree that we will someday be able to substantially slow down the aging process, extending our productive, youthful lives. Dr. Aubrey de Grey is perhaps the most bullish of all such researchers. As has been reported in media outlets ranging from 60 Minutes to The New York Times, Dr. de Grey believes that the key biomedical technology required to eliminate aging-derived debilitation and death entirely—technology that would not only slow but periodically reverse age-related physiological decay, leaving us biologically young into an indefinite future—is now within reach.
 
In Ending Aging, Dr. de Grey and his research assistant Michael Rae describe the details of this biotechnology. They explain that the aging of the human body, just like the aging of man-made machines, results from an accumulation of various types of damage.  As with man-made machines, this damage can periodically be repaired, leading to indefinite extension of the machine’s fully functional lifetime, just as is routinely done with classic cars.  We already know what types of damage accumulate in the human body, and we are moving rapidly toward the comprehensive development of technologies to remove that damage.  By demystifying aging and its postponement for the nonspecialist reader, de Grey and Rae systematically dismantle the fatalist presumption that aging will forever defeat the efforts of medical science.
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I browsed through the second book (below) and found it to be possibly an easier read.
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A summary of "A Scientific Conquest of Death" in Amazon:
Nineteen scientists, doctors and philosophers share their perspective on what is arguably the most significant scientific development that humanity has ever faced - the eradication of aging and mortality. This anthology is both a gentle introduction to the multitude of cutting-edge scientific developments, and a thoughtful, multidisciplinary discussion of the ethics, politics and philosophy behind the scientific conquest of aging.
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One of the key issues is that if we were to live forever, then are we allowed to have children?
Also, isn't reincarnation a better way? In that we still live forever, but our bodies are recycled and renewed in each of our incarnation? That is, if you believe in reincarnation.
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Stefan said that it may be better also to have a scientific alternative to extend life, just in case, reincarnation doesn't really happen. :)

Monday, December 08, 2008

Technology 8 - The Oldies

The other day, as I was clearing my room, one of the things I had to throw away was the old PC. The old machine (bought in 1999) is still running, but without a USB port, a big enough memory, a fast enough modem and and low flicker flat screen, it just doesn't make much sense to keep these days. So, it is going to the scrap heap.
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As I was salvaging some old data from the PC, I came across many quaint old stuff that I hoarded back those days. I had Microsoft Encarta, World Atlas, Chess Games...etc. Back then, they cost a lot of money to buy. Now, they are all superseded by faster, better, more user-friendly services, and most of all - Free!
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And it was not only software that were local, but I also hoarded articles and emails, because I didn't think that I can easily access them from the Internet. It was a sense of insecurity akin to the common and inherent fear that I cannot tap into the Akashic Records or the universe, to be informed or inspired, and therefore cannot be free from attachments. If we trust, then the fear becomes no more.
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Now Wikipedia, Google Earth and many online games have replaced the old stuff. Even those exclusive offline business directory memberships are now superseded by business and social networking sites, instant messenging and video conferencing.
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Technology has rapidly changed our way of doing business and our social life. Personally, I have made many valuable business contacts online. People I would otherwise have little chance of meeting in person, as they reside in the other corner of the world.
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The old "Request for Information" from big companies to suppliers, is now but replaced by searches on Google or Youtube. Most good technologies are now better explained on video in Youtube, than texts and brochures.
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Some technology suppliers go a step further to allow potential clients to get a ballpark quotation of what they want, by answering a few simple questions. Thus, simplifying the RFP (Request for Proposal) that follows. Perhaps one day this part will also be superseded by online auctions, which is already happening for more standardised commodities and services. These e-auctions are efficiently executed, self documenting and are paperless - saving some trees.
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Consultancies are also affected, as many people now choose to tap the collective brains of specialist forums to get quick answers - what was formerly obtainable only from paid consultants. More and more, services are offered free online. To earn the buck now, more value has to be added. Perhaps one day, these freebies will also be offered in the offline world, working towards what Bucky envisioned in World Game and also expressed in Alvin Toffler's Revolutionary Wealth. This is more reasonable than what many people think, since technology has made many things cheaper, not more expensive. Inflation is a consipiracy.
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Even age old vices, like gambling and pornography have moved online, hosting their servers in more laxed jurisdictions, to escape tax and prohibitive laws. All this without the need to invest billions in an integrated resort (IR) too! Makes me wonder if the IR under construction in Singapore is a has-been business model, better run online. Likewise, porn magazines are almost wiped off the shelves these days. Well, at least the trees are safe! *laughs* (Note: That is not to say that I agree with these vices, especially gambling, which one way or another, necessitates that for one to win many have to lose. )
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Even the power and authority of politics and governments are not spared the impact of technologies. The Malaysian ruling party was almost knocked out by the many political blogs and satire that sprung up during their elections. The Singapore government will also wake up to a rude shock come the next election, when they realise they have underestimated the power of online blogs and citizen podcasts. Up till now, the media is largely government controlled and censored. It will become more and more difficult for dictators to survive in the new world.
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In India, bureaucratic corruption is also cut down by the advent of e-government, and also cutting queues, time and labour.
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Fathers will realise that to communicate and develop a closer relationship with their sons, it will be easier to understand the online games that their sons are playing. It may be hard for many fathers, but their sons are more likely than not have their minds living in Cyberspace. Some more chronic cases will actually have their second lives in Secondlife, and the father induldged with second wives in second lives. :)

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Then, as I lugged the bulky screen and PC into the truck, I still have a little remorse for retiring the faithful machine, while it is still in working order, to the scrap heap. It feels like I am administering euthanasia. Moreover, I was also not sure how environmentally responsible the scrap yard operator is. Admittedly, after all these years of the PC having served me well, I do sense a bit of attachment and loss. :(
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Monday, November 05, 2007

The Last Lecture - Randy Pausch

Got this from a friend - a video about the 'last lecture' by Dr Randy Pausch of Carnegie Mellon University and his zest for life, when he only has a few months more to live.

The Mindful Way - a BBC documentary

Found excerpts of this enlightening BBC documentary, "The Mindful Way", that has an interview with Ajahn Chah, posted on YouTube. For more about Ajahn Chah's wisdom in Vacuum State, click here



The ultimate is to let go, and even to let go of "letting go", for the mind must have no desire and flow with the natural cause. When that happens the mind will be as still as the forest pond. There will be problems but you will see through them.
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When we cease to cling to happiness, we begin to be happy. In the end, we don't own anything, as ultimately there is no self, but just the basic elements of Earth, Water, Air and Fire.
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Meditation confronts this 'self'. This can be like a raging storm to free one's heart and open to loving kindness that embraces all life - that all lives have breath that rises and falls - and eventually, all lives expire.
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If we can't understand 'death', life can be confusing. And so in the movie "Tuesday with Morrie", Morrie said, "When you understand death, you start to learn how to live."

Thursday, November 01, 2007

Rewards 3 - Will to live


Recently, two of my friends recovered from cancer of the stomach and are in remission.
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One of them has a four year old girl. She told me the thought of her little girl going on without a mother pushed her to live.
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The other friend has a strong faith in his religion and went on a leafy green diet and no other liquid other than water and green tea. He also overcome cancer despite much odds in his daily life.
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I think both of them have turned out stronger in the end. I am very happy for them.
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I am now moved to reflect on my life and what I do everyday - deciding what is worthy what is not, and to enjoy everyday as if it is the last (or the first).
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